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05 August 2004 @ 09:30 am
Nope, not gonna fly  
Getting upset and snippy and putting *me* on the defensive when I pointed out that *you* crossed the line (without jumping down your throat, I might add) in making an offhand but very personal suggestion about my body that was purely for your convience is not the way it works. Further, by then jumping on me and telling me that I was being snippy and defensive and thinking you 'were out to fuck me' doesn't help AT ALL. Go figure.

I don't have time for this crap. I've put you on the list of people I don't want to deal with right now.

-the bitch-

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Non calor sed umor est qui nobis incommodat.melanie on August 5th, 2004 09:16 am (UTC)
*sigh*

they'll probably never get the point. usually they don't.
-the redhead-theredhead on August 5th, 2004 01:23 pm (UTC)
You're right, they often don't. But I just had to get it out otherwise I was going to have a very redheaded moment, which I try to avoid.

-the bitch-
-the redhead-: lalalalatheredhead on August 5th, 2004 01:27 pm (UTC)
sad thing is I tried hard to be reasonable and discuss it, but he was already in snippy-you-pissed-in-my-cheerios mode and wasn't listening to anything I 'said'.

-the bitch-
Non calor sed umor est qui nobis incommodat.melanie on August 5th, 2004 04:44 pm (UTC)
yeah, that's the way it goes, i know. i don't know any way around it. whenever i have someone who continually steps on my boundaries like that (constantly commenting on looks and body things, etc.) i usually end up being known by them as a "moody bitch".
-the redhead-theredhead on August 5th, 2004 04:48 pm (UTC)
This wasn't that sort of situation, but offhandly asking if I would change my periods around for convenience sake is a bit over the line...

-the redhead-