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05 July 2004 @ 08:17 pm
I have time  
I have time. We have a date. Apparently that doesn't really mean anything anymore.

-the redhead-
-the redhead-theredhead on July 5th, 2004 08:19 pm (UTC)
Face it you silly bitch - people only do things if it's convenient or if they get something they want out of it. You can spend time, effort and money and tell them something is important to you, but in the end it's only what's convenient or good for them that matters. So only plan things that will work for yourself, where it doesn't matter if other person bails. Because, after all, it's never a real friendship or relationship - they are most likely lying just to get whatever it is they want or need. When it comes right down to it they think you should consider yourself lucky to enjoy any of the attention they may throw your way. But in the end it's just easier to hang up than to deal.

-the redhead-

Zannadragonpurr on July 8th, 2004 08:44 am (UTC)
-the redhead-theredhead on July 5th, 2004 08:35 pm (UTC)
Never care about others because they don't really care about you. Or at least, keep in mind when other people say they care it's not the same thing at all. Stop trying so damned hard, because in the end it's not worth giving your heart and friendship. It's not worth reaching out, because people don't really care. And it's never worth it to try to see anyone else's POV or be concerned about how things might be perceived or effect them because they don't return the favor. You'll never accrue any benefit because it's just throw away to them. Never ever put someone's concerns about your own. All those things just give people weapons to use against you. At best you just end up being the idiot in the situation.
Skittenskitten on July 6th, 2004 12:49 pm (UTC)
I would definately agree that it's a mistake to put other people's lives over your own...

I don't, however, feel that being generous and giving up something that was important to you in order to be with someone you want to be with is a mistake...

If someone takes adavantage of that generosity and then blows you off it is not to be repeated, however....

Judging from what I'm reading- it sounds like someone hurt your feelings by blowing you off, desp[ite your willingness to bend to their needs... that's not very nice..... :( *hug*