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08 September 2004 @ 04:23 pm
Unfortunately I cannot give you a solid answer on whether I'll be able to do the things you want and need and feel comfortable with unless I know what they are. I am trying to make sure that I listen carefully to what your wants, needs, and concerns are so that I can think about them and see if I will be able to meet them sufficiently.

I am not trying to be difficult - I am trying my best to make sure that I am paying attention and really do understand things so that I can give you the best answer I can, and not one that I might not be able to live up to (for whatever reason that might be). I understand that you have been deeply disappointed with me and hurt by me for the last couple of weeks or so, and am trying to avoid any further misunderstandings on my part or disappointing you.

At this point asking questions to clarify seems to be the best way for me to make sure I understand and am not thinking something completely wrong. I am trying at all cost to avoid the mistake I made recently by not asking enough and making sure I understood fully. This is why I sent you the email I did last night. Not to pry, but to make sure I am doing things right.

If you are uncomfortable with my attempts to understand, please let me know. All I can to is try.

>----- ------- Original Message ------- -----
>Yes, I do recognize that. However I do need to know
>your thoughts and
>feelings as well.