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15 February 2005 @ 12:02 pm
I consider myself polyamorous when single. Part of that, for me, is I don't expect to give up the warm, friendly fuck-buddy interactions I have should I find someone I want to have a relationship with.

However, if you view polyamory as purely behaviorial, then only people who are actively having multiple relationships are poly. Actually, this works well not for defining others (which is often in poor taste), but for defining oneself.


-the redhead-
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Bill the bold bosthoonwcg on February 15th, 2005 07:56 pm (UTC)
Yep. Defining one's own self is just fine, and is a matter of personal choice and preference. That includes defining one's own self as "undefined." I'm no fan of Thomas Szas' line about "define yourself or be defined." because it's basically an invitation to the rude jerks of the world to toss labels at those of us who don't want to make targets of ourselves.
-the redhead-theredhead on February 17th, 2005 10:35 pm (UTC)

-the redhead-