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25 April 2005 @ 11:37 am
No more Miss Nice Gal  
Yanno, screw this nice, accepting, accommodating, reasonable crap. Since no one else seems to have a problem pissing and whining and demanding, which often means I get put at the end of the line, I'm just going to start asking for every single thing I might possibly want right when I want it. The whole ' I know I'm making you do this pain-in-the-ass thing and didn't give you any options, but since the other person asked afterward they get what you wanted but weren't given the alternative of' is bullshit.

Way to make a stress-filled, sucky week that much worse.

Funny thing, I was still nice, even when getting screwed. Apparently 'I really appreciate your flexibility' is supposed to make everything better.

I just want to go home and have someone hug me

-the redhead-
Skittenskitten on April 25th, 2005 06:43 pm (UTC)
not that it will help....
but here's a *hug* :)
nyobserver on April 25th, 2005 06:45 pm (UTC)
I am sorry things are stressful

Bill the bold bosthoonwcg on April 25th, 2005 07:55 pm (UTC)
*hugggs* <- offered, of the virtual kind. Wish I were near enough to make them the non-virtual kind.
Abby Franquemonthuaman on April 25th, 2005 10:33 pm (UTC)
If you were really that nice, accepting, accommodating chick, there is NO WAY that I would like you as much as I do. You can play one on tv all you like, but you're not fooling anyone.

I think you may have the same problem I do, which is thinking, "Screw it, if someone's gonna suffer here because of something I did or didn't do, it should be me instead of someone else, because at least I CAN HANDLE IT, and someone else will be a pain in my ass eventually otherwise..."

The thing is, that's NOT true in the long run. I have started making it a matter of policy -- and I have to talk myself into doing this -- that at least once a week, fuck everyone else, I'm doing at least one thing that's totally selfish and accommodates nobody else and is not nice, flexible, friendly, or reasonable. Shockingly enough, it's definitely not hurt anything at all and it's just possible that it's HELPING.