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08 July 2003 @ 03:16 pm
This is part of it  
I believe that negotiations made in love are likely to seem to exist in a different universe from those made from need or a fear of loss. In love they are likely to be fluid, suggestive and a source of new delights and discovery and enriching to those involved. In need they are likely to be more rigid, well defined, requiring the patrolling of boundaries and constant judicial reviews of definitions. Now, who wants to dance? Who wants to go on trial? - greengrower

-the redhead-
Ysysabel on July 8th, 2003 04:02 pm (UTC)
For the record, I'm actually rather enjoying the whole exploring whatever's going on in quotes thing. It's fascinating.

And I'm all for the dancing thing, m'self...
Musings from the CZ unitcz_unit on July 8th, 2003 07:28 pm (UTC)
Sounds about right. One is decisions made to enjoy something, look toward something, and the other is to push away from something, turn away from something.

Even if the goal is the same, the feelings about the goal are vastly different. This is one of my cornerstone philosophies.